Model _ Director _ Date _ Participant signature, assuring you have read model’s limitations thoroughly: PRINT LEGAL NAME 1. Please specify any additional guidelines for scene partners.
_ _ Are you ok with receiving marks that may last a few days? Please write you personal preference in the column to your right. Enema – will you do an enema on film? No Notes: Corporal Punishment - Are there any areas of your body you do not want hit or punished because of sensitivity or other reasons? Face Breasts Nipples Butt Pussy Asshole Feet Thighs Back Choking Hair pulling No Notes: MARKING: Do you have a shoot in the next few days? If so please write NO MARKS in the column to your right. Spitting – on body, face, or in mouth Animal Role play - bark like dog, etc. Tickling Water Play – dunking, dripping on head, spraying on face, throwing on body No Notes: Humiliation Foot worship (sucking on feet) Forced masturbation Begging / asking permission Verbal humiliation as part of roleplay: are there certain things you would not like to be called? e.g. NoSoft Limit Hard LimitNoSoft Limit Hard Limit Bondage - Cuffs Binding or restricting the body (usually the wrists) with handcuffs. And once youre finished filling it out, the 'report summary' pdf organizes all the responses by your level of. If you create an account, you can even add your own custom items if theres a personal kink you want to add. That way I can just do a quick review before a scene. Sensations can be from mild wave to static (carpet) like shock. 200 Question BDSM Checklist - Printable Version This checklist is formatted to print correctly on standard 8-1/2'x11' paper. They can update it as they learn more about what their limits are. This is probably one of our favorite lists because it’s so comprehensive It covers body boundaries, words and terms, relationship models and choices, safer sex and overall safety items and behaviors, sexual responses, physical and/or sexual activities, non-physical (or not. Sexual Kissing Pussy Licking Ass Licking Blow job Face fucking or rough blow job Vaginal penetration Vaginal fingering Anal penetration (b/g, fingering, toys) Swallowing semen (all participants cleared through PASS Database) Ass to Pussy Fisting, vaginal Fisting, anal No Notes: General Clamps Gags/ oral toys Hair Bondage Sensory deprivation – hoods, Hot Wax- (temperature tested and SAFE) Electricity – Safe medical grade and adjustable to you. 1) Scarleteen’s Yes, No, Maybe List: A Sexual Inventory Stocklist.
When you are done review your lists, see if there is anything else you want to add then reflect, share, discuss and negotiate with your partner(s).Limits Check List for Sex and Submission *Please check all items you do not agree to do during your shoot. Four – experienced I know what I’m doing.Using a scale of zero to five put a number next to each item. The final column is to give an indication of your current experience level for each kink and fetish. Im meeting with a new sub and I would really like to have a more concrete list in order. Ive seen it before but Ive forgotten the name. Sexual contact or a specific activity such as any kind of anal penetration like anal sex or anal fingering are examples, but like everything when it comes to kink, it’s personal. Trying to find a website that helps make a list of kinks and limits. Some of the kinks and fetishes are anatomy specific and will not apply, just ignore them and move on to the next one. Specifically, you’ll be incompatible when one of you lists something as a hard limit that the other person requires in their kink, sex, or relationship. We are likely to have different desires and limits with. They can also help folks feel confident about the other person’s desire to engage in an activity with them specifically. Separate the kinks and fetishes into FOUR separate lists by putting a ✔tick in the column that best represents you kink/fetish, soft limit, hard limit, not a limit. Yes/no/maybe lists are an awesome written way to avoid some of the awkwardness of sexual negotiations and to find areas of sexual compatibility with a new partner. Complete this list as a reflection of who you are at this point in time and journey. Directions: Print out two copies of each list. The things we love, enjoy, are skeptical about or won’t even consider change throughout our journey. Penetration (Double) Penetration (Triple) Piercing (permanent) Piercing( Play/temp) Phone sex. Purpose: This activity is designed to help assess which sexual activities you and your partner would be willing to do in order to improve communication and relationship fulfillment. Take a look at the listed kinks and fetishes and think about where each one fits into your personal limits currently. The main purpose of a BDSM kink checklist is to aid communication and ensure a safe and consensual experience by helping individuals explore and express their desires, boundaries, and limits.